Why do we dedicate an emotion usually to a person that hurts us?

Rage, Hatred.

Jealousy.

Pain.

We create our own personal vengeance in these forms, dedicating it to them. But why? Why do we have to feel so much toward them that we do this?

Can't we create an emotion to dedicate toward those who don't hurt us?

I think that this is because we want to keep love, while we want to push all this pain and anger away from us. But in this, it makes those who really care feel unimportant in the shadow of these emotions, these incarnations.

Another dilemma along the road of our lives, filled with spirits and confusion and self-inflicted pain.